Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata hai? ( what is this new trend of pre-marriage counseling?)

Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata hai? ( what is this new trend Pre-Marriage Counseling called??) 

Since generation our relatives used to get marriage proposal for us. In more previous days our grandparents used to fix our relationship. Nowadays we got our life long proposals from social sites, newspaper, dating apps or blind dates. Before staring your fancy imaginary marriage marriage counseling is much needed part since generations. In old days our grandparents, sister-in-law used to be our counselor but nowadays most of us living in a nuclear family , so it's not possible to get it. Don't get too much in fiction. If you watched Rajshree Production movie Vivaah in which anupam kher playing role of groom father take him to CCD for marriage counseling to meet a girl through blind date & said the right age of marriage & also role of her sister-in-law in counseling about girl pros.

Nowadays couples visits counselor for pre-marriage counseling before tie the knot. Is there any guarantee for marriage either it's arrange or love one? I think answer is No. Still people are getting married. Even people go for pre-marriage parties, photos, bachelorette but no counseling. Still these things are not alone worth to keep your relation work, still you need counseling. 

If you are thinking that marriage counseling is a new trend, No. Since generation our relatives used to play a role of counselor in our knots. Nowadays we get married late due to carrier. This lead to reason for quarrel between lifestyle. After living independently for 30 years you got your ego, ambition more than any expectations. These counseling help couples to plan everything by clearing doubts for future queries. It help us to get ready for new responsibilities. In past we have families to tell us everything how to follow new journey. Now due to corporate World we are living alone, so even a small tension can lead you to divorce. 

Divorce are getting common. Government want the wedding counseling for every normal people. 

How to start? 

Just like you go for bachelorette party & get memories have counseling too. The concept behind it is a happy & healthy family. In this counselor make you aware with coming responsibilities changes & how to deal with them. You can know each other plus & minus. Higher families choose it mostly.

Only love is not enough? 

Counselors help you to break silence on kept issues. You are more comfortable & compatible counseling. 

These counseling help you in knowing about your partner behavior & urs too. You are more aware about your relationship weakness & strength in situations. They will help you in taking the right choice for you. Love is not enough for survival need a care & confidence in oneself too. 

Dr Deeksha Singh

Hormonalwings founder

OBGYN PT

Author of " It's All About Pregnancy"

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